Monday, December 7, 2015

Think you’re the only one with quirky kinks? Think again. Lots of people are aroused by the unexpected, from bare feet to costumes to whips and chains. We’ll walk you through five favorite fetishes—then we’d love to hear about your own in the comments below!

BDSM

We talked a little about bondage in a previous blog post. BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline/Domination & Submission /Sadism & Masochism and serves as a catchall phrase for a wide range of activities. Many of these sexual acts involve one dominant partner, or “top,” and one submissive partner, or “bottom.”

Handcuffs are a great way to add a little excitement to the bedroom. If you’re interested in making a (consenting) pet out of your partner, or yourself, try the Scandal collar with leash. Looking for something a little more stimulating? Opt for this O Ring Gag with Nipple Clamps.

Roleplay

Many couples enjoy roleplaying in the bedroom—it’s a chance to bring all your hidden fantasies to life. Maybe you’re a naughty secretary who won’t stop flirting with her boss, or a sexy nurse who pleasures her patients back to health. Or maybe you’re a perfect stranger at a bar thanks to a new wig.

You don’t necessarily need costumes to roleplay, though. All you have to do is share your fantasy with your partner, and take it from there!

Voyeurism

People who enjoy voyeurism experience pleasure while watching others—whether they’re watching their partner masturbate, or another couple have sex. Watching porn counts, too, although it might not be as thrilling as watching another live person or couple.

Of course, it’s important to note that voyeurism is illegal without consent. There are plenty of ways to indulge your voyeuristic side with a little planning and open, honest communication.

Foot Fetishes

Yep, foot fetishes are a real thing—and pretty common, too, especially among men. Someone with a foot fetish might enjoy sucking their partner’s toes, giving foot massages, or even masturbating with their partner’s feet.

As with any kink, the best thing to do is to communicate with your partner about your desires, set boundaries and, most importantly, have fun. Don’t be shy—besides, who would say no to a nice, long foot massage?

Swinging

Ever wished you could watch your partner engage in sex with another man or woman? Or have sex with another man or woman as your partner does the same— then switch? Swinging, or partner swapping, is when individuals in a non-monogamous relationship engage in sex with others. While swinging is not for everyone, the alternative lifestyle is an exciting way for many people to add more variety to their sex lives.

Swingers have their own organization, NASCA International, which is a great resource for seasoned swingers and curious beginners alike. You can also find resources on our website like this Swinging Lovers DVD. 

 

Image courtesy of Hustler Hollywood Stores

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Date Posted: 6/27/2016 11:10 PM EST

I tried role play with my wife the other day. Cable man / lonely housewife. She was excited to try it & loved it.